Dei'ah veDibur - Information & Insight
  

A Window into the Chareidi World

1 Sivan 5765 - June 8, 2005 | Mordecai Plaut, director Published Weekly
NEWS

OPINION
& COMMENT

OBSERVATIONS

HOME
& FAMILY

IN-DEPTH
FEATURES

VAAD HORABBONIM HAOLAMI LEINYONEI GIYUR

TOPICS IN THE NEWS

POPULAR EDITORIALS

HOMEPAGE

 

Produced and housed by
Shema Yisrael Torah Network
Shema Yisrael Torah Network

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Home and Family

Captured Moments
by Devoiry Kutainer

A large, three-family house situated in the quiet end of Borough Park.

The white brick facade made an impressive frame for the huge brown metal door. Cream-colored aluminum sidings hid old green tiles. Each one of the three floors housed a different family, each with its own unique background, yet all sharing so much in common. Living together, spending time with each other had unified them into one, blurring their differences. All three doors would swing on their hinges as Family Klein on the first floor made their way up the steep stairs to Family Rushgold. Mrs. Rushgold would often say; "We never bother to lock the door." The third floor housed Family Horowitz, Mrs. Horowitz was the adopted `grandmother,' babysitter, counselor, secretary, registered nurse, teacher and whatnot of the building.

The kids loved to trek up the winding staircase to her cozy attic home where she would have a good word, listening ear and warm kiss for everyone and for Chani especially. Chani Rushgold was a shy and very restrained girl. Scholastically she was very successful, but socially she was very poor. She always felt inferior due to her slight hearing impairment and heavy orthopedic-Oxford shoes. Whenever in the need of a morale boost, she would shuffle up the twisting brown fuzzy carpeted stairs, but on her way down she would usually race down the steps.

On one such an opportunity, when the recess break was spent turning the jump rope for hours on end, making her feel klutzy once again, she dreamt for the moment that she would be able to fall into Mrs. Horowitz's arms. No, they were not laden with goodies, but with loads of love.

"Darling," her neighbor would say, "How was your day at school today?"

Once, Chani Rushgold had looked into her kind almond-colored eyes and then slowly lowered her own. Mrs. Horowitz hugged Chani close to her huge frame. (Mrs. Horowitz, was also a mind reader.) The tenderness of her touch and the soft massage performed wonders. Chani's black eyes shone with unshed tears and sparks of happiness. As ever, Mrs. Horowitz had been there for her; she had found the path to the feelings which had been clamped behind an iron wall.

"Come, honey," she said as she led Chani to the tiny corridor blocked by a large metal cabinet. It was filled with paraphernalia, brimming with odds and ends and goodies. After choosing her prize, she settled on a tall stool and watched Mrs. Horowitz shuffle in her pink terry slippers to the plastic sink standing on four legs. Amid the bubbles, the steady stream of water and pleasant scent of Palmolive dish soap, Mrs. Horowitz continued to talk and discuss Chani's day.

"Did you learn something new today?"

"Yes!" Chani said. By now she had become Mrs. Horowitz's good pal. "My teacher, Miss Kohl, told us that `Tomorrow we will be learning division.'"

"Division!" Mrs. Horowitz yelled aloud. "Chani, I can't believe it! You're growing up so quickly. Are you serious? I'm so happy for you! That's marvelous! Did your teacher explain what that means?"

"Nope. Tell me."

"Of course I will, sweetheart." Then wiping her hands on her apron, she came up close to Chani. Chani readied herself for another wet kiss, but now Mrs. Horowitz had other plans. She pointed to the two rows of buttons neatly sewn on the uniform jumper. "How many buttons do you have?" she asked.

"Four!" Chani promptly answered.

"That's right, now let's split the four by two, how much would that leave us with?"

Chani peered down onto Mrs. Horowitz's fingers and guessed, "Two."

"Excellent!" Ann Horowitz applauded, "you divided the buttons on your own!" Chani refused to believe that she had succeeded in performing a new and complicated math procedure with a simple calculation of a few buttons. Yet, Ann just smiled and said, "You'll see, it's as easy as that!"

*

On the long Friday nights, the winds howled and huge flakes of snow swirled in the darkness, locking everyone into their own abode, promising a white pristine carpet for the following morning. Mr. Horowitz, multi-talented like his wife, would make his way down the carpeted stairs. His strong arms would carry huge decorated fruit platters. His cheery smile peeked from a blond-white reddish beard, a large black kipa perched upon his balding scalp.

His professions were plumber, contractor and painter, yet his hobby was to create culinary creations. He loved the kitchen. The small red and white tiled kitchen barely sufficed. The chairs and corners were cluttered with books, newspapers, cans and boxes. The couple sang and greeted the kids, secretly praying for one of their own. Prayers are always accepted up Above. Every tear is collected and stored right beneath the Throne. And so was theirs. No act or deed is ever forgotten; each one is inscribed in the Heavenly memoir. They would often count their pennies to pay the grocer, but never did they check the time spent to help others in time of need.

One day, shouts of Mazel Tov were heard from the windows of the almost one-family house. The kids ran up and down the stairs in excitement as the news reached them that another member had joined their clan. The older ones whispered one to another, "Can it be? Perhaps she adopted a baby; her hair is graying, I even saw a gray curl peeking out of her silver embroidered scarf."

The adults expressed their joy at seeing their neighbors finally able to parent a child at the age where many were already reaping nachas from married children.

There was no time to waste; the day was spent in a flurry of preparations. As a finishing touch, the door was decorated with balloons, signs and streamers. Both families stood on the long wide porch awaiting the celebrities. The tiny green car was spotted from afar, the noise of the dark gray smoke sputtering from its exhaust pipe, identifying its owners. As if on cue, the two families cheered and ran down the four steps to personally greet the new junior Horowitz family member.

David, a scrawny and pale infant, was the Horowitz's Heaven- sent gift. Now Mrs. Horowitz relinquished her role. Although the refrigerator proudly boasted her card as a Registered Nurse, it was not to be practiced upon her own offspring. When the thermometer would go past the line of 98.6 F, there would be frantic knocking on Family Rushgold's door and if there was no answer, the child, bundled in blankets, was brought down to the sure hands of Mrs. Klein. More often than not, it was a regular flu or virus, but Mrs. Ann would take no chances, and run off to the pediatrician's office for a professional opinion.

David, growing up between two happy parents, always had a wide grin pasted on his small face. His parents would try to stuff a morsel of food into his mouth while he was busy with his huge array of toys, but to no avail. Mrs. Ann compared his progress to his peers on the lower floors. This made her anxiety level reach soaring heights. David, a bundle of energy and love, had a mind of his own and as if to spite, did not begin to crawl on the allotted day. This almost devastated his middle-aged parents.

The cold winter passed, David was eleven months old. Mr. and Mrs. Horowitz began to make plans for the great birthday celebration to commemorate David's first birthday.

Mrs. Horowitz did not overlook anything and sought to make the birthday party special and remembered by all. One rainy Sunday afternoon, she invited the five Rushgold members and five Klein members to join in the great preparation spirit. They were lined up at the bathroom sink; where their hands were duly scrubbed with disinfectant soap. Then every child was given a garbage bag; slits were snipped with large metal scissors for the head and hands.

Amidst the chuckles and giggles, Mrs. Horowitz made sure that all was in order. Rolling pins were magically procured from the somewhere deep in the cupboard and the table was opened to its fullest. The noise was unbearable. But, when the sharp whistling sound pierced the air, all knew its meaning and quiet reigned.

"Children," Ann began, "we will be baking fancy cookies for next week's birthday party; everyone will get a chance to put in an ingredient, to mix and then bake his own cookies, for David, of course."

"Oh, goodness, where is he? Where did he go? Please, I hope not to the porch." The `porch' was a black tar roof, with no gates. A small wooden door locked by a small hook and eye latch, easily unlocked by any small child, was her constant nightmare. The door was locked. The kids dispersed and searched for the missing child. He was found, hidden in a nook in the walk-in bedroom closet, blocking out all the noise from his tiny ears.

"Oh, sweetie, we didn't mean to upset you," said Mrs. Horowitz, "All we wanted was that everyone enjoy your special day."

Preparations continued full steam ahead. The dough was too sticky, so Mrs. Rushgold and Mrs. Klein lent a helping hand, adding a bit and flour, mixing with expertise, until a soft manageable dough was formed. The kids stole pieces of dough when not under Mrs. Horowitz's watchful eyes, ignoring warnings of the stomachaches it can cause.

When the huge batch of cookies lay on the counter, Ann settled down on the sofa, propped her feet up and fanned her heavily perspiring face. "A real project," she thought, "all for my precious bundle."

Like a thunderbolt it hit her, "David, where did you disappear to again?" This time she headed straight to her closet, but could not find him there. Frantically, she reached for the large heavy antique black phone and dialed the Rushgold's.

Yes, he had crawled down the stairs and joined them, having learned to enjoy the noise above the silence. "Take it easy, Ann, enjoy the quiet. He's in good hands," said Mrs. Rushgold.

The awaited day finally arrived; all the guests, young and old alike, had their reserved seat in the spacious backyard. Tables and chairs were dragged to the lush green lawn. The nieces and nephews of both families Klein and Rushgold were also invited. All the real aunts (who looked like great- aunts) were cordially invited. Aunt Martha flew in from California and Aunt Olga from Long Island with heavy handbags of gifts and presents to the beloved birthday boy. Hats and balloons were bought and blown up. The huge cake was baked and smeared with white icing.

David looked around, mesmerized by the hectic scene. He clapped in excitement at the hubbub and, of course, was offered a lick from the delectable icing prepared by Aunt Olga's vigorous mixing of confectionary sugar and warm lemon juice.

The tape recorder played, colorful balloons were attached to the electric wires, and birthday hats were distributed, filled with goodies. The adults leaned back and enjoyed the popcorn and fresh summer fruits, feeling relaxed and grateful for this wonderful opportunity to share happiness together.

The scene was filmed to preserve the party in the family archive. David looked about, bewildered and amused at his position in the spotlight. Mr. Morry Horowitz, with his eye glued to the camera, signaled that the kids should begin singing. As they began, David clapped in excitement, thrilling his parents.

And then the unbelievable happened, bringing tears of happiness into Ann's eyes as well as to all the onlookers. David tentatively took one step and then another. His father, Morry came up close, the camera shaking as his usually steady hand quivered in excitement while he attempted to adjust the focusing lens. The momentous steps were captured forever.

All those present clapped in unison, overjoyed at the opportunity to share in the perfect end to the first year of the simcha of those who — with so little — gave so much to others.

 

All material on this site is copyrighted and its use is restricted.
Click here for conditions of use.