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JERUSALEM LANDMARK
How an Orphanage Began

by Yisca Shimoni

It was very early in the morning and the sun was trying to brighten up the dark skies. Miriam Yehudis was still in bed, listening to the chirping of the birds. "Time to get up! There's so much work to be done!" R' Dovid would soon be home from shul and he would want to rush off to the kollel. "I must get up. There's no time to waste."

She jumped out of bed and was soon busy at her chores. She put up the kettle to boil while she set the table, cut a few salad vegetables and sliced some bread. Then she took her siddur. She was struck by the quiet and sighed. If only there were some noisy children to disturb the stillness. Three children had died in infancy but she did not despair. "Hashem will surely help. He will bless me with children who survive. Healthy, robust children..."

In those troubled times, it was not easy to raise a family. Infant mortality was high. Parents also died from illness or epidemics, leaving orphans stranded, easy prey for the long reaching arm of the missionaries.

When R' Dovid returned home, she had not yet finished her prayers. She looked up to see him holding the hand of a little girl. The waif looked up at Miriam Yehudis with big, dark, sad eyes that looked scared and unhappy.

"Who is she?" Miriam Yehudis asked when she had finished davening.

"Coming home from shul, I heard bitter wailing. I walked into a house and found this little girl huddled in bed, frightened and helpless. Her parents were dead. They must have just died from the plague." He sighed. "First thing I did was to quiet her down. The only thing I could think of was to bring her here. But now I must go back and tend to the burial of her parents." R' Dovid Weingarten rushed out of the house, leaving his wife with the little girl.

When he returned, he was surprised to find the two conversing freely, looking quite content. He looked at his wife questioningly and she nodded. Yes, they would keep this little girl. She would assuage her grief over the three children she had lost. She would dispel the sadness from their home.

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This turned out to be a turning point in the lives of the Weingartens. When her neighbors saw the loving, devoted care that Miriam Yehudis lavished upon the orphan, they brought her some other homeless girls. Soon the couple was parenting five little girls. They rented some rooms nearby and these were quickly inhabited by other girls, orphan waifs whose parents had succumbed to the plague, for whom the only alternative was the missionary orphanage.

How many such girls could they possibly handle? wondered Miriam Yehudis. Was there no limit to her endurance? Shouldn't they draw the line at this point?

Where there is a will, there is plenty of siyata dishmaya. R' Dovid encouraged his wife to persevere.

"The Gerrer Rebbe, R' Avrohom Mordechai, asks a question about R' Chanina ben Dosa, who once wanted with all his heart to bring something wonderful to the Beis Hamikdosh. His problem was that he didn't have any money."

Miriam Yehudis nodded. The Midrash was familiar to her. She filled in. "He decided to take a big stone, cut it finely, clean and polish it, and take that to beautify the Beis Hamikdosh. But what does that have to do with our orphans?"

"Wait and listen. He worked very hard and soon the stone was all ready, but he had no means to transport it to Yerusholayim. He prayed, and suddenly, five strong men appeared who were willing to carry it if he agreed to assist them. Thus, the stone was delivered to the Beis Hamikdosh. When they vanished from sight, he realized that they had been angels."

She nodded and waited for him to get to the point. "The Gerrer Rebbe asks how R' Chanina could have undertaken such a project, knowing that he could not complete it? He knew he didn't have the means to transport his gift. Was he relying on miracles? One must not do that. The answer, he says, is that a person must undertake whatever mitzva comes his way. He must make every human effort in his power. The rest, the end result, is not up to him. Hashem will help.

"The same applies here, to us. We must tackle this mitzva and do it to the utmost of our ability. Hashem will complete it for us."

The Weingartens did not reject any girl brought to them and soon they were caring for fifty girls. They rented an entire building, brought in help and taught the girls to be self sufficient, as well. All along, they experienced tremendous heavenly assistance in this great enterprise, which today is housed in beautiful quarters and is still doing an admirable job with girls from all kinds of homes, not necessarily orphans but also from deprived backgrounds.

They were also blessed in their personal lives, for Hashem granted them children of their own, and generations that follow.

 

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