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What I Did on My Summer Vacation
by Rosally Saltsman

"Endless opportunities, courtesy of our Divine Travel Agent..."

I spent the summer abroad for two months. As I prepared to leave, I felt a bit guilty as I saw myself taking off from Israel, to begin with, and from my spiritual work as well as my professional work -- to have a holiday. While the only `work' I did being on vacation was confined to writing a couple of articles and collecting ideas for others, my spiritual `vacation' turned out to be a spirtual workout I hadn't expected. Contrary to popular opinion, in this case mine, a vacation can be an opportunity for exercising otherwise flabby spiritual muscles.

Whether encountering old friends or new acquaintances, one is presented with new experiences and new situations which provide fresh ground for spirituality to take root. Seeing family and friends usually presents an opportunity to deal with unfinished business and approach old relationship habits in new ways. We get the chance to see ourselves through the prism of time which usually reveals our true colors. We can gauge our spritual growth in ways we can't do on a daily basis.

Each locality also offers its own opportunities for spiritual growth or a new mitzva. Or just being a good-will ambassador for our people. While taking a train from Paris to Strasburg, I struck up a conversation with a non- Jewish girl on a work-holiday in London. She asked me how it was living in Israel and I explained that one of the reasons I live there is because I'm a religious Jew. She then expressed her fascination with Judaism and in answer to her questions and enthusiasm and with the help of my son, I gave her a quickie course in the basics of our complex and fascinating tradition. I'll never see that girl again, I'm pretty sure, but who knows what consequences that conversation might have? The information I provided her with can have some benefits down the road unforeseen except by the One Who guided me to that train in the first place.

I spent Shabbos with a childhood friend in London. It was the first Shabbos her two young daughters ever experienced. They seemed perplexed but guardedly interested in it. My girlfriend used the same candlesticks that her mother had used when she was a child and the kitchen glowed with the light of many candles and young and eager smiling faces. And I haven't even mentioned the merit this woman got for the great lengths she went to ensure I had kosher food and utensils. I would hire her as a mashgiach, after the proper coaching, of course, for her sheer devotion to halachic detail. Who knows what lies in the future? A taste of Shabbos packs a powerful punch...

I went to buy some shoes in London. The woman who was managing the shop just `happened' to have a granddaughter who had recently returned from a trip to Israel and was longing to go back. We discussed the merits of such a decision and I slipped into the role of good-will ambassador again, this time, with an Aliya representative role thrown in for good measure. But I wouldn't have expected to encounter this opportunity in a London shoe store. Being receptive and open, simply because I was out of my usual context, proved an important ingredient.

I could go on, but the endless opportunities of Kiddush Hashem that present themselves, courtesy of our Divine Travel Agent, are obvious. Vacations are a great time to stretch our physical and intellectual muscles and "spread our wings and take flight." It is no less an opportune time to spread our spiritual wings and get some work done. [To `pay' for our ticket...]

 

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