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Three Lost Chances
by Yisca Shimony

Mindel Zemba stood in her shop, counting the change in the money box. All day, she was kept busy with customers, but the purchases of nails, horseshoes and other small metal hardware items were scant. She noticed how frugal were the customers and how carefully they ordered the items they needed and counted out their pennies. She sighed.

Gone are the days when wealthy customer ordered in large quantities and paid for their purchases with ready cash. Nowadays, everybody is so penny-pinching, and though they do come for their bare necessities, our earnings and profit are much less.

Meanwhile, R' Menachem Zemba, esteemed Torah scholar, sat in his study on the second floor of his home on 34 Brokov St. in Warsaw, hosting his eminent guest, R' Moishe Blau, of Yerusholayim, representative of the Eida Chareidis of Eretz Yisroel. "It is our great honor to offer you to become our official Rov," said R' Moshe Blau with importance.

R' Menachem listened carefully, then said, "I am greatly honored and I must admit that I am very tempted to accept it, but I must first consult my wife. Ever since the untimely death of my father-in-law, our life has changed drastically. My wife now runs the family business singlehandedly since I have, until now, refused to accept any rabbinical position. But in this case... I must ask what she thinks..."

And in the shop, Mindel sighed. The day's income had been very small. How are we going to pay all those high taxes when our debts keep multiplying? She walked to the door, ready to lock up and retire for the night.

A slight noise of a door closing behind her startled her. She swung around and noticed her husband standing at the back entrance of the store, his face lit up with a bright and joyful smile. She didn't have the time to wonder about his jubilant mood because he was already telling her.

"I had a guest from Eretz Yisroel today. He told me that the Eida Hachareidis is looking for a Rov." He stood still, waiting for his wife's reaction.

Mindel stood frozen. Could my husband be contemplating the position of Rov of Yerusholayim? she wondered. She stood there silent. Was R' Menachem truly prepared to go all the way to Yerusholayim?

"I was offered the position. I asked for some time to consider. I had a feeling you would not be in favor. Our debts are high and our income is low."

"That is not really my main consideration," she admitted. "What about the married children? How can we just get up and leave the family here?" Her words continued to flow without pause. "I know that to be a Rov in Yerusholayim is truly a great honor, and though you've refused many rabbinical positions, I understand that you would like to accept this one. But, I don't know..." She lowered her gaze and sighed, thinking about the sad situation such a move would create.

He nodded slowly, "It is a wonderful opportunity. I do regret that you don't want me to take it up. True, it would be a pity to leave the Admor, the Gerrer Rebbe, and our married children, and the grave of our beloved son who died so young..." Crestfallen, he turned to go, resigned to the decision that had just been made for him.

Mindel stood near the door, concentrating on locking the door, not knowing that in that short exchange, she had locked more than the door to her store...

R' Menachem Zemba had given a negative answer shortly before W.W. II broke out, so his first chance to escape the war was lost.

*

In Warsaw, debts continued to accumulate and taxes were increased. Mindel had no recourse but to close shop. The community appointed three rabbis to serve the needs of the people and R' Menachem agreed to be one of them. The house on 34 Brokov was sold and the Zemba family moved into the crowded Jewish ghetto.

Germany invaded Poland and R' Menachem was arrested, already in the beginning of the war. He was tortured by the SS police, who demanded that he provide them with a list of all the wealthy Jews, in return for his freedom, but he refused. Mindel assembled the prominent Jews of the community and raised a large sum of money for his ransom. This was accepted but the imprisonment and torture had already taken a significant toll on his health. Fearing another arrest, the Zemba family decided to keep on the move, and never remained for any length of time at any one address. Few people knew of their whereabouts at any given time.

Many people tried to escape; some succeeded. Among these were the Admor of Gur, R' Menachem Alter. Permits to leave Poland and enter Eretz Yisroel were delivered by a messenger who secretly entered Poland via Italy. The permits included the Rebbe's family, as well as R' Menachem Zemba and his family.

Everything would have been fine, except for a serious setback. The names on the certificates were made out for members of the Alter family; the Zembas could not qualify...

Another messenger was dispatched with revised permits but he was caught and the permits were confiscated. The second chance was missed.

*

In all of Warsaw, there was only one esrog that year. The Rov allowed the people of the ghetto to recite the blessing over it and this brought a small measure of hope and comfort to the disconsolate, suffering Jews.

The war continued and the Germans were determined to thin out the ghetto until no Jews remained. The residents were rounded up regularly in aktions and taken to the Umshlag Platz where a selection was made. Mindel and her daughter were herded there along with another wave of people. They were sent to the left. They knew exactly what that entailed.

"Don't look back," Mindel told her daughter. "We are headed to the Other World, and there, it is all good."

R' Menachem had been given a brief reprieve and he was determined to help his fellow Jews as best he could, for whatever time was still allotted him. If he survived, he hoped to publish his Torah writings, but this was not to be.

The three rabbonim of the Warsaw ghetto were given a chance to escape and go to Eretz Yisroel. They met together to discuss this golden opportunity and after much serious deliberation, decided that they could not, at this crucial time, abandon their fellow Jews.

Not one member of the Zemba family survived the war. They had missed their three chances to make aliya.

May Hashem avenge their brutal deaths.

 

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