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Two Eyes
by Pennee Lauders

Two eyes: One to view one's self and one to see others.

Two eyes: A good eye and an evil eye.

Two eyes: One which is benevolent and one which is critical.

Two eyes: One of them is blind and the other catches every detail.

Two eyes: One sees more to the right and the other sees more to the left.

They never see eye to eye.

Each eye when used alone can distinguish up from down, and side to side, the vertical and horizontal dimensions respectively. Each eye alone is, however, incapable of adding the third dimension, that of depth.

Each eye brings the picture from its own unique angle and this slight inaccuracy requires focus. When these two perspectives are brought into focus, we perceive a third dimension. We perceive near and far, shallow and deep. We can judge distance and fathom space.

Two `I's: One thinks of himself. One thinks of others.

Two `I's: One is good and one is less good.

Two `I's: One is caring and the other jealous.

Two `I's: One is forgiving and the other carries grudges.

Two `I's: One examines his deeds and changes his behavior and the other looks for opportunities to criticize others.

Two `I's: One is the good inclination and the other is the evil inclination.

They seem to be at odds with each other but they can learn to work together. They can both be harnessed with the yoke of Torah and good deeds to do the will of their Creator. This causes the depth of Jewish perspective to grow. Thus we develop 3-D vision.

Because we know how much we crave this or that pleasure, we can understand how hard it is for our neighbor to curb her appetite.

Because we struggle with our kids as they grow, we won't judge our neighbors when their children behave like children.

Because we feel bad when our tongues slip, we'll quickly forgive others who speak impulsively.

In short, we'll use our critical eye for identifying the areas in which we ourselves need to improve and we'll use our magnanimous eye for overlooking our neighbors' faults. Did I say faults? We'll use our good eye to see only the positive in our neighbors.

We'll slowly deal with all of these messages and we'll learn to interpret them with the proper perspective. We'll see Hashem, others and ourselves with heightened awareness of our Divinely-granted relationship. We'll learn to see how far from Hashem we can stray. However, we'll also learn that by harnessing these seemingly opposing inclinations, to work together, we enter a new realm. The realm of awareness of our ability to serve Hashem with every speck of our strength, with every aspect of our being.

 

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