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PREPARING FOR THE FUTURE
The Upward/Downward Spiral

by R' Zvi Zobin

School A was the only school in town. It trundled along as it had done for tens of years. Then school B opened up, offering a more challenging program. Many parents moved their children over to School B and at the beginning of the next term, School A was half empty.

The trustees of School A had an emergency meeting with the principal. The conclusion was clear. To be able to remain open, they would have to upgrade their own curriculum. They sacked many of the older, easy-going staff and replaced them with new, highly motivated teachers, keen to raise a new generation of great talmidei chachomim. The school announced higher standards, less time wasted on play, more homework and stricter testing.

Attracted by the new levels, many parents moved their children back to School A and School B found itself half empty. Now school B had no choice but to upgrade itself to even higher levels so as to enable it to regain its position of being the `Top School.'

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This cycle is taking place among secular schools as well as in our own institutions. As a result, children are working harder, from an earlier age, having more homework, being tested more intensively, playing less, going to bed later and getting less sleep than ever before.

And the tragic results are the same.

More children are failing and dropping out. The desired higher standards are not being achieved, illiteracy is increasing, children are less happy, more stressed, learning problems are increasing and parents are having to spend more money on therapy and special tuition.

Parents who appeal to the school to reduce the pressure meet a stone wall. Educators cannot compromise on their new high levels because they, too, are trapped. If they lower their standards, they know that they will lose their clientele, especially the high caliber students, and will have to close down.

The root of the problem lies in the silent majority allowing the system to follow the demands of the vocal minority who are ambitious for their children.

The half who remained in School A were happy with their relaxed, comfortable atmosphere. Some of those who first moved over to School B did so because even though they, too, were happy with School A, nevertheless, they felt obliged to "do the best for their children."

When the trustees of School A decided to upgrade its standards, they did not consult the parents, because they assumed that raising the standard of the school can only be good and, anyway, without it, the school would be doomed. And when the parents heard that the school would be upgrading, they assumed that the "school knows best" and anyway, what can be wrong with the children learning more? Furthermore, if the children in School B can accept a more intensive work load, why can't their children?

It is possible that the parents who pushed for School B to be opened were correct in assuming that their children were so intelligent that they really did need a more challenging program than that which School A offered.

A child who is truly a budding genius really has to have his own customized schedule. It is not possible to blend his requirements into a program for regular children. Either he will be grossly under-stimulated or the regular children will be grossly over-stressed.

Traditionally, such children did not go to cheider but were sent to the great talmidei chachomim who learned with each child individually and thereby developed the child's potential. It is not realistic for a public institution to be able to satisfy the requirements of such a child.

Relating to the needs of a highly intelligent child within a class setting does not consist of simply giving the child more work to do. A highly intelligent child might be chutzpadik, wild and impetuous. He needs exceptionally intelligent and understanding teachers who know how to relate to his intelligence and deal with his precociousness and how to develop the child without suppressing him.

The highly intelligent child also requires a program customized for his needs. The program will need to be sufficiently challenging and flexible to meet his requirements and adapt to his development as he matures.

His program also needs to be organized so that he gets more time to play and burn up his excess energy. He also needs special attention to ensure that he eats and drinks properly and he also probably needs more sleep than the average child.

Therefore, a school which attempts to remain `normal' and cater to both regular and gifted children with the same type of curriculum and timetable, runs the risk of attempting the impossible and failing both groups.

Klall Yisroel has always been on guard against attempts to change the education of our children from what is had been for thousands of years. We are now seeing that attempts to push the education of our children to unheard of levels can have serious rebound effects.

 

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