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So What's the Problem?
by M. L. Mashinsky

It's just like the weather -- people agonize over it, experts analyze it, conferences discuss it, but no one seems able to do anything about it.

What is "it"?

"It" is the low level of reading skill in schools today, a level which is steadily dropping. Many new words have been coined to disguise this fact -- children may be called dyslexic, learning disabled, comprehension-challenged, but what it all boils down to is: The kid can't read!

Why?

Children are starting school at an earlier and earlier age. Shouldn't they be able to read better, especially with all the colorful primers, computers and audio- visual aids available today? But the present situation suggests a truth that should be shouted from the rooftops, that deserves discussion among educators at every level and in every subject: The too-early teaching of children who are not yet ready to learn has resulted in a nation of illiterates in the real meaning of the word: unable to read.

Yes, there are thousands of children (who become adults) in every community who have never learned to read well, and as a result, will be handicapped all their lives.

Reading skill is a most complex combination of many processes -- mental, physical and even emotional. For most children, the point of maturity is age six -- an age at which they can learn to read with a minimum of effort and without the high rate of failure apparent in students who are pulled and pushed to master reading when they are not yet ready.

R' Zvi Zobin recently wrote, "Until about thirty years ago, children started to learn the alef-bais when they were five years old. In Frankfurt-am-Main, before World War II, the Orthodox school started to teach reading when the child was seven years old, when the physiological development of the brain is finally completed."

This pattern has been followed for thousands of years with great success. Not in vain are Jews called the People of the Book. The ability to read, and therefore to write, and to transmit knowledge to future generations, has been nurtured and sustained by a system formed by our greatest Sages, who devoted much thought to this most vital subject.

The Rambam suggests age seven as the ideal time to begin educating a child. In Hilchos Talmud Torah (1:6), he writes, "When is the father obligated to teach his son Torah? Not until he is six or seven years old. Then he brings him to a teacher." And again, in Chapter 2:2, he writes, "Bring him at age six or seven, according to his strength. Before that, he should not be brought."

In Menoras Hamaor we find, quoting Rav to Rav Shmuel ben Sheylas: "Do not accept children below the age of six, but from that age and above, accept them and imbue them with the Torah as you would feed a hungry ox" (Bava Basra 21a).

Rav said: "Whoever brings his son to study Torah before the age of six will find his efforts to sustain the health of the child unsuccessful" (Kesubos 50a).

What do we find today? Children are sent out of the sheltering home environment at age three or four, and sometimes even earlier, and forced into a situation for which they are not ready. We seem to have forgotten that a three- year-old is still a baby in many ways. It was only a short time ago that the child acquired the skill of walking, talking and controlling physical functions, of the coordination of brain, eye and hand essential to reading readiness. Now he has to compete, and often fails...

The ability to tie a bow contains many of the elements needed for reading readiness, but we would consider it a very foolish parent or teacher who would spend days, weeks and months trying to teach a four-year-old to tie a passable bow, since we know that most children can do so easily at age seven or eight. Why, then, are children expected to learn reading before they are ready?

What are some of the obvious results of too early or too intensive schooling?

1. Those of average ability, which, of course, includes most children, are already considered failures by their parents, teachers and worst of all, themselves, before they even begin to learn.

A five-year-old who has not yet mastered the alphabet is made to feel that he is stupid, that he will never know anything, often a self-fulfilling prophecy. A precocious child who has learned to read on his own may receive so much praise for his `accomplishment' that he remains content to coast along, taking the easy way out, never putting forth the effort needed to attain real knowledge. And being able to read is not the same as understanding the material! But students who are not taught reading at the right time, usually too early, many never be able to catch up.

2. The ability to read is so basic to the learning process that a child who has not acquired it in the beginning, will be handicapped forever. All learning, whether Torah or, lehavdil, secular subjects, depends on being literate. Children who may be intelligent, creative, eager to know, often fall further and further behind because they cannot read well. Who has not encountered a Bar Mitzva boy who cannot make kiddush correctly or say kriyas shema? Or adults who are unable to read directions or fill out a job application?

Of course, there'll always be stories like that of Yankel, the poor immigrant who applied for a job as shammos at the Second Street shul.

"Can you read and write English?" he was asked.

"No."

"Sorry, for this job you have to be able to write."

So poor Yankel became a peddler. Later, he opened a little dry goods store which grew into a mighty chain of departments stores, and Yankel became tremendously wealthy. When he concluded a multi-million dollar deal by signing the check with an X, the bank's president was astonished.

"You can't write? Imagine where you'd be today if you'd have learned to write English!"

"Why, I'd be shammos in the Second Street shul..."

Such a story, whether it is true or not, is always good for a laugh. Yes, there'll be a success story of someone who rose to the top in spite of being illiterate, but for each such case, there are thousands who went under.

3. If the child is not taught reading at the right time, when fully ready, it is almost impossible to catch up later. The teacher of first grade or kindergarten is pressured by parents and principal to cover ground, to follow the curriculum. One cannot take time out for the child who doesn't quite get it -- and by second or third grade it is too late.

R' Zobin writes, "A typical seven-year-old can pick up in a short while all the siddur and Chumash that other children learn between ages three to seven." In the heyday of the American Talmud Torah, the after- public- school Jewish studies classes, eight-year-olds learned to read Hebrew quickly, spending only a few hours a week on the subject after a long school day... because they were ready.

Miss R., a young day school teacher, valiantly resisted orders to begin siddur before all the children in the class were able to read. It paid off -- her former pupils all have beautiful command of Hebrew and are eager students as grown-ups, too. Today, as Morah B., she's still doing an excellent job.

4. The fear of failure induced by inability to read affects a person's whole life. As Rabbi Yosef Strassfeld wrote in the Jewish Observer, such people are constantly covering up, sometimes successfully, but usually at tremendous cost to their self-esteem, stability and to their future.

5. Why are there so many children today diagnosed as dyslexic or learning disabled? Why are special schools for these `special children' proliferating on all sides? Thirty, forty and fifty years ago, there were no experts, computers or special programs for dyslexic children, but there were also very few children who couldn't learn to read!

A mother wrote the following pathetic letter in response to an article on this very subject:

"My son, who is now 34, was diagnosed as dyslexic at age 6, by top professionals. This did not help him any, since the word `dyslexic' simply means `unable to read,' a fact of which we were all too aware. He went from grade to grade in yeshiva, always at the bottom of the class, always covering up by memorizing and always frustrated and unhappy.

"In Mesivta High School -- no change. We moved to Israel and he eventually found work which did not require reading. He got married and had a child. When his little boy, aged four, asked, `Abba, can you help me with my reading?' his father decided it was `now or never.' He contacted a specialist in reading problems and lo and behold -- within a short time he was reading! No more faking the davening; no more shame at being unable to read simple directions. His lifetime problem was solved!"

But not everyone is so lucky. Many are plagued all their lives by having been diagnosed as dyslexic or anything from ADD to ADHD. It is often not the teacher's fault.

There may be environmental factors at work here. Perhaps it is the food we eat, the water we drink, the air we breathe -- all have an effect on the body and brain. Although these times seem financially and emotionally more secure than Depression and Holocaust years, children today seem to lack the stability bestowed by a warm home environment.

Rabbi Menachem Weldler z'l told of a student, who performed excellently in the morning session but who failed in the afternoons. It was discovered that he was in dread of going home; he worried how his mother would treat him. Would she smile at him and greet him lovingly, or would she yell at him in anger? His mind was so filled with anxiety that he was unable to learn all afternoon.

As Rabbi Weldler said, "A pot packed with earth to the brim does not have room for the roots to grow. A head full of negative emotions does not allow room for any learning..."

There are many difficult home situations such as poverty, conflict, illness, that have a negative effect on learning, but it was always thus. Children have lived through war, bombings, even loss of home and family, yet continued to learn. Being unable to keep up, being subjected to criticism and ridicule, feeling ignored and ignorant -- these are the factors leading to failure.

WHAT CAN BE DONE?

We can return to the age-old system of teaching reading when the child is ready -- not before age five for most. Children who have mastered reading on their own can be put in a somewhat older class if they fit in, physcially and emotionally. If this is not an option, they can be given stimulation by assigning extra interesting subjects, and by making them `teacher's assistant' by helping weaker students.

As Rav also said to Rav Shmuel ben Sheylas, "If a student doesn't respond, pair him with a more diligent study partner" (Bava Basra 21a). This produces excellent results for tutor, tutored and teacher.

Grouping Pre 1A and first grade students according to ability as perceived by the teacher or by testing is often counter- productive, since children are certainly aware of being in the slow lane.

A second grader came home crying, "I was a Bluebird, and now the teacher made me a Robin."

"What's wrong with that? Robins are just as pretty," said her mother.

"Oh, Ma, Robins are dummies. That means I'm a dope."

And once the label is applied, it is almost impossible to remove. The old label sticks forever, while the child changes and grows, but no one notices.

Teachers must pay special attention to those who are slower to catch on -- praise for accomplishment, small rewards, even a loving smile can work miracles. As a general rule, an extra two or three months spent on reading proficiency in the first grade will produce rewards for a lifetime. A child who does not catch on by age seven, the right starting age, according to many experts, should be interviewed, not tested, by one who is knowledgeable in related fields.

After months of futile struggling, a seven-year-old was found to need glasses, another was partially deaf, and a third was so tired she couldn't keep her eyes open. A fourth who seemed unusually advanced in most ways just `didn't catch on.' Due to a series of illnesses, he had been absent at the crucial beginning, but the teacher never noticed, while the parents never said anything. When appropriate corrections were made, the reading skills of these pupils improved dramatically. Multiple choice tests would never have revealed these problems. When necessary, private or group tutoring should be provided in a tactful and non-judgmental manner, preferably not by parents. An older brother or sister or young neighbor can often be of help; if necessary, professional help should be sought as early as possible.

But it is never too late to learn, and acquiring basic reading skills can change a person's life for the better.

New hope for yeshiva and Bais Yaakov dropouts, and for unhappy, alienated youth, is offered by innovative programs such as "Outside the Framework" by Rabbi Zobin (02-5373340) and Rabbi Weber (02-5000028). But a concerted effort by teachers, parents and schools is needed, starting NOW, to prevent these problems from arising in the first place. By taking appropriate action at the right time, in the right way, parents and schools can save themselves a tremendous amount of headaches, heartaches and -- yes -- money, too.

Children will gain not only knowledge, not only self- esteem, but a happier and brighter future.

Mrs. Mashinsky was a teacher and principal of a large school for many years. She has written extensively about education and Jewish history. Her latest book is Chance Encounters (ArtScroll).

 

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