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More Postcards from the Palace
by Bayla Gimmel

I once shared a short collection of personal examples of the amazing Divine Providence that we fortunate one living in Eretz Yisrael and particularly in Yerushalayim are privileged to see first hand. I entitled the article "Postcards from the Palace." I would like to add some more hashgachah protis gems.

One of my married sons lives in a lovely community located about forty-five minutes (as the bus flies) outside of Yerushalayim. Last week, he received a call that one of his old friends — a former chavrusa — had a new son, and that the bris was scheduled for Friday morning.

My son talked it over with his wife, who was busy preparing for Shabbos for their family and the several guests they were expecting. They decided my son would attend — alone. On Thursday, his friend called to ask if my son was coming. When answered in the affirmative, the friend made a small request.

The friend's in-laws — the new grandparents — were flying in from America. Their daughter felt they would be tired after the trip and the simchah, and that it would be ideal for them to have a quiet place to sleep on Shabbos, somewhere close enough for them to walk to their children's apartment for the meals.

Just such a place existed, but there was a catch. It was the apartment of a neighbor who had gone away for a while. They were welcome to use the place, but the only person who had a key was the brother of the owner, who lived in the same town as my son. The brother would be home on Friday morning. Could my son stop off on the way to pick up the key to the apartment, and bring it with him?

He was happy to be of help. As my son took the key, the brother mumbled something about another problem. Here he had someone going to Yerushalayim that Friday, but now . . . if only he knew someone going the other way. My son quickly explained that he was only going for the bris and hoped to return immediately thereafter. What could he do for him?

A neighbor of the brother was not feeling well. Her friend in Yerushalayim offered to cook a whole Shabbos for her and her family, but how could she get it there? For someone to bring the food to this town meant at least an hour and a half of travel time, round trip, plus the interval of waiting for the buses.

My son said he would be glad to bring the food if it wasn't very far from the shul where the bris was being held. Where was it? On Rechov X. And where was the home of the lady who was doing the cooking? Three buildings down!

If all of this had taken place on a different Friday, the baal simchah would most likely have scheduled the bris at the shul near his house, which would have been a distance from where the food was. Also, my son would have had his wife and young children going to Yerushalayim with him.

It would have been difficult for him to manage the double stroller, diaper bag and all of the other things one needs for a family excursion and also bring a number of bags filled with food trays.

By Providence, the scenario unfolded on the very Friday that my son was traveling by himself. He had no problem carting all of the food back to his town and bringing it to the sick neighbor of the gentleman who was the keeper of the apartment key.

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The next story took place a few days ago. I am privileged to live in a neighborhood that has excellent stores selling just about everything. The rare exception is stockings. Every few months I go to a certain supermarket about an hour away that carries a good selection of thicker stockings and I stock up.

All summer I stayed close to home. Even after things calmed down in the north and everything stabilized, I didn't venture out of my neighborhood very often. In fact, I didn't even buy a monthly bus pass in July or August. Therefore, I put off my stocking shopping expedition.

Now I have a bus pass. Several times last week, I said, "I think today I'll go buy stockings." Then something would come up to change my mind. But one afternoon early this week, I had a strong feeling that I had to go to buy the stockings right, right then. I grabbed my shopping bag and jumped on the very next bus.

After I changed to the bus that goes past the supermarket, I began to regret my hasty decision. The driver of the second bus must have been behind schedule and he was really zooming along. In fact, he was driving a bit on the reckless side. Each time someone rang to get off, he came to a screeching stop quite a distance past the bus stop.

When we were approaching my stop, I rang the exit bell two blocks in advance, but the driver still took the curve leading up to the market like a rodeo cowboy. The bus came to a stop all right, but not across from the market. We overshot the bus stop by a good twenty feet or more. I got off and crossed to the parking lot of the shul that is located next to the supermarket. From there, I could enter the supermarket parking lot and then the market itself.

An important aside: One of my neighbors, whom we will call Chaim (not his real name), has a car. He and his wife use their vehicle to do an amazing amount of chesed. Whether they are driving to a wedding or even a funeral or condolence visit, they offer a ride to as many neighbors as can fit in their car. I have been privileged to be their passenger on many occasions and I know their car well.

Back to the shopping trip. It was minchah time when I entered the shul parking lot, and I recognized my neighbor Chaim rushing up the path.

As I passed one of the parked cars, I saw that it was Chaim's familiar jalopy. I also saw that a key was sticking out of the car's trunk lock! Dangling from the key and its key ring were at least half a dozen other keys as well! Just as he was about to disappear through the front door of the shul, I called out, "Hey, Chaim, you forgot your keys!"

He rushed back to retrieve them. I was thinking it, but Chaim said it first. "I can tell that you were sent here right now just to tell me about the keys." There are non- Jewish workers who unload trucks in the supermarket's lot just adjacent to the shul parking lot. If one of them had looked over and seen the keys protruding from the truck, he could have helped himself to everything in the car, if not the car itself.

Also, had someone taken the key ring, he would have had the house keys as well. It is very possible that papers in the car would have revealed the owners' address. I am sure that it is because of all of the good that this family does with their car that they were saved from what could have been a major loss.

I don't remember ever being on a bus where the driver overshot bus stops by that much. Clearly it was only for one reason. By Divine Providence, I was supposed to walk through that parking lot just then, rather than simply cross from bus stop to supermarket!

 

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