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Eisov's Hatred Towards Yaakov

by Rav Yaakov Horowitz

Part I

Parshas Shemos introduces a new element between Am Yisroel and Mitzrayim: the latter's deep-seated hatred towards Am Yisroel.

This hatred is peculiar in the lack of a reason behind it. Normally, hatred between nations develops as a result of a dispute over sustenance, economics, political control, or something like that, that leads to an outbreak of fighting and hatred. Yet the Egyptians' hatred was different. It developed organically and with no apparent cause.

Similarly all forms of hatred by the nations of the world towards Am Yisroel have no rhyme or reason. Although explanations are invariably proffered, they are really excuses more than reasons; either they are too rich or too poor, too cloistered or too integrated, and so on. This phenomenon is so deeply ingrained in the human race that Chazal used particularly strong language in referring to the nations' loathing: "Said R' Shimon Bar Yochai, `The halochoh is that Eisov is known to hate Yaakov "(see Rashi on Bereishis 33:4). The early commentators explained that R' Shimon Bar Yochai chose the word "halochoh" to demonstrate that this is the way it was and this is the way it always will be. It is a rule of thumb permanently imprinted in humanity, just as halochoh will remain permanent until the Redeemer arrives.

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In Tehillim, Dovid Hamelech writes, ". . . Therefore Hashem changed the Egyptians' hearts to hate His people, to seek means of harming His servants"(105:25). This entire chapter deals with Hashem's acts of kindness towards Am Yisroel during the descent to Egypt and then in the Egyptian exile. He opens with the words," Give praise to Hashem, call upon His Name, make his wonders known among the nations," and continues, "He did not allow anyone to exploit them, and tormented kings for their sake . . . He sent before them a man, as a slave Yosef was sold . . . He placed him master over the house and ruler over all his property." Towards the end of the chapter he continues describing Hashem's acts of kindness. "They performed His signs among them and wonders in the land of Chom . . . He turned their waters into blood . . ."

The positioning of Verse 25 is quite surprising, for at first glance this does not seem beneficial for Am Yisroel at all and certainly does not belong in the middle of a list of Hashem's "wonders" performed for His people. Also the verse offers no explanation for the reason behind this hatred, noting only that Hashem caused it.

Nonetheless the verse indicates that this animosity is a special form of Hashgocho protis for the sake of Am Yisroel (of course everything Hashem does is for the best, but the point here is that even from a limited human perspective, men of flesh and blood can perceive how Hashem helps Bnei Yisroel) and has a beneficial effect, just as all other events involving Mitzrayim were for the best (see Beis Halevi on Parshas Shemos).

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Perhaps another saying by Chazal stems from the same idea: "The hatred amei ho'oretz feel towards a talmid chochom is worse than the hatred of idol worshipers towards Israel "(Pesochim 49b). In fact the estrangement that separates an am ho'oretz from a talmid chochom is greater than the gap separating the nations of the world from Am Yisroel. For us to make such an assertion would be inappropriate, but once Chazal established it to be true we can assume that this too is "halochoh," and we must try to understand the root and purpose of this hatred.

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During the current period, when hearts are more responsive to kiruv, activists often compromise their standards to interact with Jews who are not yet keeping Torah and mitzvos, relying on numerous leniencies to help draw the latter closer to Yiddishkeit. For example, saying divrei Torah before a married woman's uncovered hair is prohibited, but the Chazon Ish, extrapolating from statements by Rabbeinu Yonah, ruled that if many people could derive benefit from divrei kiruv and mussar, one may speak before women whose hair is uncovered. Today many kiruv activities rely on this hetter, when necessary, in dealing with the masses.

Yet Chazal speak of a very different attitude. According to the gemora (Chagigah 18b) clothes belonging to an am ho'oretz are considered midras (an object that renders someone impure upon contact) for talmidei chachomim. Various Rishonim and Acharonim claim that when talmidei chachomim began to distance themselves from amei aratzim (such as considering them tomei), the latter began to despise the former for what appeared to them arrogance.

Did certain stringencies develop in order to distance talmidei chachomim from the rest of Am Yisroel? Was this a reason for feelings of aversion to evolve? Some people mistakenly believe Chassidism was formed as a mass movement to bring talmidei chachomim and amei aratzim closer together. According to this notion, high scholarly aspirations are bound to wreak havoc and create rifts among the people, while bringing Jews together, even through aggressive, outside efforts is an act of building Am Yisroel! Such a notion is inconceivable and simply wrong. But why were efforts not made to break down the barriers separating people?

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If the Jews do not make kiddush, Rav E. Wasserman Hy'd was famous for saying, the goyim will make havdoloh. By this he meant that if Jews do not distance themselves from the goyim, the goyim will do it for them.

This phenomenon was particularly manifest during the Nazi period: among the first decrees issued when the Nazis came to power was a prohibition against mixed marriages! But rather than recognizing and heeding Hashem's command to preserve their kedushoh, Am Yisroel perceived this as racism; rather than taking advantage of the opportunity to elevate and sanctify themselves, the Jews came out in protest against this instance of blatant discrimination.

Even earlier, the German government declared a ban against opening Jewish stores on Shabbos. And similarly, instead of heeding the command to keep the Shabbos, they saw it as an economic blow, missing another gentle pat Hakodosh Boruch Hu gave them to wake up before it was too late.

The Germans' intention, of course, was to impose restrictions on Am Yisroel, but the root cause from the Heavens was to signal to the Jewish people how they rectify their situation. Had they realized this they would have started building themselves, and perhaps all of the horrific events that demolished Am Yisroel would have never taken place. The Germans also forbade the Jews from gathering in botei knesses, and yet again instead of listening to Hashem telling them where a Jew belongs, they resented not being able to hold concerts there (see responsum in Seridei Eish). Thus all of these decrees were really for the good, because they encouraged separation between the Jews and the Germans, but when the wakeup signs did not avail, Hashem introduced a different kind of separation — through blood and fire and pillars of smoke, Rachmono litzlan.

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The same pattern of events occurred in Mitzrayim. Am Yisroel began to draw close to the Egyptians and in order to conceal distinctions, the Jews stretched their foreskin (orloh) and went to their vaudeville houses and theaters. Instead of growing closer to the hosts through these activities, the Egyptians began to hate Bnei Yisroel. When Am Yisroel failed to wake up to the situation, they were enslaved in order to detach them from the general population: " . . . Therefore Hashem changed the Egyptians' hearts to hate His people, to seek means of harming his servants." This was a form of kindness by the Creator, Who guards over His nation. Even in human terms and even during slavery this could be seen as a beneficial act through the recognition that kol man de'ovid Rachmono letav Hu de'ovid.

End of Part I

Rav Yaakov Horowitz is rosh yeshivas Ofakim. This essay is reprinted from Doleh Umashkeh.


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