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A Bare Blessing
by Yated Ne'eman Staff

A brocho for long life received from a tzaddik is precious. After all, "A tzaddik decrees and G-d fulfills!" But can one always be certain that the blessing will be fulfilled?

This story surfaced when the great Dayan Yisroel Yaakov Fisher zt"l, Av Beis Din of the Eidah HaChareidis in Jerusalem, passed away February 2003, two years ago.

Chaim Trauber,* a respected Jew and worshipper at the Zichron Moshe shul in Jerusalem, already had a chazoko, a longstanding tradition, to purchase Maftir Yona every Yom Kippur for mincha. The gabbai knew that he was willing to pay ten per cent more than any other bidder in order that this be reserved for him.

One Yom Kippur, Reb Chaim, already in his late seventies, made his way to the bimah to recite the blessing before the haftorah. To his embarrassment and dismay, another Jew had been called up and was about to make the blessing. When the gabbai caught sight of Reb Chaim, his face paled. How could he have forgotten! Reb Chaim expected him to reserve the haftorah for him and now he had sold it to someone else!

Unaware of the mistake, Chaim stood at the side of the bimah, waiting for the other gentleman to move over and let him say the blessing as he did every year.

The gabbai was at a loss! How should he handle this sticky situation? He hastily approached the Dayan, Harav Yisroel Yackov Fisher, and asked him what to do.

Rav Fisher stood up from his chair and walked slowly over to the two men. He tried to persuade Reb Chaim to forgo the aliya this one time. The gabbai had unfortunately made a mistake, he explained, and now someone else had already purchased it.

"Next year you will get this aliya," he promised. By this time Reb Chaim felt extremely humiliated and embarrassed being the center of attraction and the cause for the Rav to get up from his place. His face a deep shade of red, he remained silent, unable to reply. Rav Fisher blessed him that next year he would get this aliya in good health and the shul would even grant it to him as compensation for his embarrassment.

R' Chaim returned to his place, still feeling uncomfortable about the incident but consoled with the blessing he had received.

Two months later Chaim passed away.

When Rav Yisroel Yackov came to comfort the family during the shiva, they expressed their surprise at his unfulfilled Yom Kippur blessing. "Didn't you promise...?" they asked.

Harav Fisher looked at the sons and answered, "Yes, I promised. I even repeated my blessing to your father. But he did not answer `Amen'."

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Two angels accompany a person home from shul every Shabbos night, a good angel and a bad one . When the person arrives home and finds the candles lit, the table set, and the house in order, the good angel says: "So may it be next Shabbos, too." The bad angel answers `Amen' against his will.

If the candles are not lit and the table is not set, the bad angel says: "So may it be next Shabbos too," and the good angel answers `Amen' against his will (Shabbos 119).

Why do the angels have to answer `Amen' against their will?

Because even the blessing of an angel cannot be fulfilled unless an `Amen' completes it!

How does one short three-lettered word ensure fulfillment of a brocho?

In the new book Just One Word now available at your local bookstore, you will discover the secret of this precious, powerful word - `Amen.' These heartwarming and inspiring stories involving both ordinary people and our Torah giants of past and present will leave you inspired long after you've put the book down.

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