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Neophobia
by A. Ross, M.Ed.

The title word means a fear of anything new. Recently, scientists have discovered that certain eating disorders stem from an early childhood refusal to eat specific foods. Some adults have a mental condition which causes them to fear the consumption of certain foods, ranging from meat to various types of vegetables. They are afraid that these foods might taste bad or that they are actually spoiled.

Why do some babies lap up anything and everything which is offered to them while others purse their little mouths and spit out anything new? In fact, I have seen identical twins behaving in this way. One eats everything with great gusto, while the other will not touch meat or vegetables.

When we introduce a baby to food, we are advised to give him just a little bit at a time at first, to make sure that he can digest it and is not allergic to it. However, once he is on solids, we should try to introduce as varied amounts of tastes and textures as possible, as early as possible after six months. But what can one do with a baby who refuses most foods?

Offer a taste of apple sauce, for example, twice or three times a day for about two weeks. By that time, he may have succumbed to the good taste and even begin to enjoy it. It is not worth trying to smuggle the detested food into his cereal if he happens to like cereal, hoping that he will not detect it. You are hoping to accustom him to that particular new food, and the longer you let him enjoy just mother's milk or formula milk to the exclusion of all else (after he is six months old), the more difficult it will be to convince him to eat solids, if by any chance he happens to be a neophobic baby.

If you are dealing with one of those babies who balks at any new taste, it is worth persevering for at least two weeks. He might not even dislike the food, yet he is afraid of any new taste. If you offer a spoonful of new food at the beginning of a meal, when he is really hungry, a really determined baby will get so angry that he refuses to eat altogether after that, and only wants milk. Thus it is a good idea to offer the new food when he is calm and not roaring for food, but also not too satisfied. Each mother knows her own baby best.

If the baby spits it out or turns his head away when you try to feed him, after many days of trying, my personal feeling is that you should capitulate. After all, there are some foods which adults dislike, too. He may take to that taste when he is a little older when he encounters it in a different texture, or when he is old enough to pop it into his own mouth.

A baby knows how much he needs. When you prepare a plateful of food and he refuses the last three spoonfuls, don't try to push them in. He has had enough, and you just overestimated his capacity.

Food phobia is definitely an illness, but has no connection to anorexia or bulimia. On the contrary, some sufferers are quite obese. Anorexics are afraid of the fat content in the food, but a neophobic is afraid of the food itself. Researchers traced the cause of some, though not all, neophobia, back to childhood. Most babies do not carry their phobia into adulthood. Some are more choosy than others about what they eat, but on the whole, food is something to be enjoyed.

[Tip: If the baby balks at the spoon, dip your finger -- or his -- into the applesauce, etc. and then bring it to his lips.]

 

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