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General Tips
by Raizel Foner

If you didn't do this at Chanuka time, or want to do this with your Shabbos glass oil candle holders -- pay attention:

Soak overnight in ammonia and they should wipe clean. Keep out of reach of children and leave in a closed container. NEVER MIX AMMONIA WITH ANY OTHER CHEMICAL SUCH AS BLEACH OR OVEN CLEANER! THE FUMES ARE ASPHIXIATING!

The same ammonia is an excellent window cleaner and does wonders with grimy frying pans and pots. Pour some on the pot and keep in a plastic bag sealed tightly overnight, preferably on an open porch. In the morning, the grime will slide off.

SIFTING FLOUR: I have been living in Israel over ten years and taking an average of six minutes to sift a kilo of flour in the usual fine mesh sifters. My rebbetzin's seven-year-old asked why I don't do as his mother and put in a heavy, dry tablespoon. Now it takes me 1 1/2 minutes. [Even better is the round stovetop burner, clean and dry. Use your sifter in a circular motion and slide it around or bang against the side of your hand for greater effectiveness.]

SOCKS: It is now or never. The time to rid yourself of those odd socks. Well, not to get rid of them, because they are good for dusting, furniture polishing and small wipe jobs. A clean sock makes an excellent washrag: put in those odd ends of soap and lather away. THEN we will let you throw them away!

So you're left with a minimum of socks in the drawer and it's time to replenish. Don't be tempted to get a variety of design or color! Get at least half a dozen of the EXACT SAME DESIGN. You will not believe how much time you save pairing socks. You will also be saving money, since at worst, you will always be left with the one odd sock at the end of the road and not accumulating the mismatches.

Also -- if Moishe has the green plaid and Dovid has the plain navy blue etc., they can pick out their socks and put them away! Splurge now and bless me!

WET DRYER -- Is your dryer taking twice as long to dry the clothes? Check your filter, to begin with. Then check the EXHAUST to make sure it is not blocked (with the missing sock) or kinked out of shape.

And thinking ahead to AFIKOMON PRIZES. When my friend was a little girl, her father would take her to a big department store and say, "Here, pick out whatever you want!" Of course, he was wise enough to lead her to the inexpensive aisle of writing supplies etc. and she would end up walking out with crayons and a coloring book. Today we have dollar and 2 shekel stores, which are just as good.

[Ed. We often come up with mothers taking their children along with them shopping to our clothing gemachs and saying: You can pick out whatever you like, here, sweetie. We can afford it. And at this time of year, there are usually very nice things from the baalebustas who began their cleaning early and are passing on nice yomtov clothing and even toys!]

FLOWER ARRANGEMENTS -- the in thing today for the chosson to give his kalla is extravaganza flower arrangements that wilt within the week or gather dust forevermore, while taking up a huge amount of space. Be original [though it is not so original anymore, Boruch Hashem] and give something that lasts, like a good toaster oven etc. and decorate that with a few nice flowers yourself.

Some more Budget-Cutting Tips and Insights in view of recent government allowance cuts

FEEL RICH and APPRECIATE WHAT YOU DO HAVE

Our current situation can be viewed as a test -- how strong are our convictions and how intimidated are we by these new decrees. Each family's financial situation is unique, each has its financial priorities, and a rov should be consulted for guidance in critical issues.

Our generation is not, in general, one of "starving for the sake of Torah." We have to provide our children with a feeling of `having' and not being deprived. It is the challenge of balancing out: keeping costs low and morale high.

One example of this is chessed. If you find yourself with a surplus of anything, share it with your neighbors. This will make your children feel rich, on the giving end.

Send your children with cans and bottles to deposit in the local tzedoka fund for refunds.

Don't go overboard with saving. When you read that my husband tells the family that we don't have to support the electric company singlehandedly, it doesn't mean that you have to sit in the dark. That's depressing. It DOES mean turning off a light in a room that is not occupied, and checking periodically that this rule is enforced.

Encourage family to make their calls after 7:00 p.m. when rates are lower. Look into the best deal for overseas calls. Eliminate cell calls as much as possible. A stamp still costs less than an hour call, and letters are for keeps. You say what you want -- once. Let your relatives call YOU.

[Raizel says this, not only your editor:] Frequent second hand shops. Occasionally you can even get new things with price tags, like the dress I found for my daughter and later priced at a department store for 137 shekel! Frequently, the quality is also better, with top brand overseas names, and a wide selection.

If your teenagers refuse to go, or to wear what you get for them, buy for the rest of the family, including yourself! [How about buying for her friend, or buying something she will surely like and putting it in her closet?]

A HAIR CLIPPER pays for itself after a few uses, and saves time, too. Fans are cheaper to run than air conditioners. And hubby says: instead of heating up a house/room, go put on a sweater and an extra pair of socks!

BECOME HANDY -- learn to make repairs, including simple sewing jobs, yourself. As they say, "A good baalebusta is half a parnossa." Barter your skills with others, like electric work or drilling for shelving or babysitting, etc.

ENJOY THE SIMPLE LIFE. Take the children to the park, weather permitting. When you go out, don't take money with you. What you don't have, you don't spend. Invest in simple arts and crafts supplies like crayons, scissors, paints, and spend rainy days at home. Or bake simply, like yeast cakes.

DISPOSE OF THE DISPOSABLES. A neighbor told me she stopped using disposable plates etc. recently and found that she is saving 250 shekel per month. This also includes garbage bags! You will find you can get by with the bigger bags you get at the supermarket. They are not too heavy when full for children to carry down and don't sit around long enough to begin smelling.

POWDERED DETERGENT is cheaper than liquid, up to a quarter of the price. Stock up at sales and don't overuse, which is bad for your machine, in any case.

WIPE YOUR BABY with a wet washcloth! No chemicals!

Fancy preparations are sometimes simple components in disguise. A mildew remover, I once discovered, was no more than plain bleach, and I paid many times the price. Spray can products are more expensive than liquid cleaners. Windows clean beautifully with a wet piece of newsprint, dried with a dry one.

DON'T CUT DOWN ON NUTRITIONAL FOOD. Your children need vitamins and proteins and not junk food. Invest in food and not in doctor consultations, ch'vsh.

BAGGED CEREAL can be 20% cheaper than boxed. But try it out on the family before going overboard. CUT DOWN ON BOUGHT SNACK FOOD. Make your own popcorn, less additives, more nutritional, cheaper.

Check price differences on products. You may be paying much more for a national brand of noodles than another one with same supervision. You will find significant differences on canned goods: tuna, tomato paste, soup mixes. Take pickles, for example. If you have ever bought the small ones, 18-25 in a can, by mistake, you will note having paid almost double than the regular ones of 7-9 per can.

MAKE YOUR OWN PIZZA for a fraction of the pizza store price and even of the ready-made frozen ones. You can do this on frozen pastry dough or on challa dough, frozen to plate size in advance. Or for a special treat for a child, you can take him/her one at a time to the pizza parlor. (You can bring your own drinks and straw along in a small bottle, even cola filled from a large bottle from home...)

Keep in mind that growing children need protein, but this can be obtained from eggs, white cheese, beans and chickpeas, dried pea / lentil soups etc. To stretch your budget even further, a two digit family can manage on one chicken or half a kilo of chopped meat by adding extra potatoes, rice or another package of noodles to fill up. You can also add the small size nuggets of raw soy, soaking in advance according to instructions, and hardly taste the difference. Nutrious as well.

SOUPS are chock full of goodness and health. Use beans, lentils, green veggies, corn, barley, oatmeal for thickening etc. Very filling, delicious. Mashed potatoes with lots of milk or white cheese and a salad equals an inexpensive meal.

CHEAP DRINKS. How many cups of tea can you squeeze from one tea bag? Two? Wrong! Rebbes in cheder can get as much as 10, even fifteen! The trick is to put the tea bag into the electric kettle and boil it up with the water. Let sit for a minute. [Our English readers may shudder in horror.] If you add the sugar as it boils, you will have a very inexpensive drink, and if you are using herbal tea, perhaps raspberry or something else tasty, you can go a very long way and forget all about expensive syrups. Excellent hot, excellent cold. With a touch of lemon juice... Rinse kettle after use.

SOME SEGULAS FOR PARNOSSA: To recite birkas hamozon from a written text, with intense meaning that He give bread to every living creature [or, humorously, bread -- a commodity that has become more dear -- with meat- bossor]. To be careful about not stepping on crumbs or throwing away bread and/or crumbs that is not wrapped up in something.

Stay within your socio-economic group. Have your children pick friends in your same boat so as not to feel social pressure.

I was beginning to feel frantic about our reduced income due to government child allowance etc. cuts until I saw a poster on my friend's refrigerator reminding me that 1) Hashem loves us, 2) He knows and wants what's best for us, 3) He is in charge.

Relax. Keep optimistic. Be openminded about trying new things and methods. Do what you can to economize and to help yourself and others, and pray for better times.

Live and enjoy this wonderful life, this wonderful world Hashem has given us!

 

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