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Selective Hearing

by Yochonon Dovid

I was interviewing a baal teshuvoh scientist. Our conversation was recorded by a tape recorder on the table. When we played the interview back, we could hear all kinds of background sounds like children playing outside, a truck passing by, the beeping of a car and the hum of a passing airplane, but while we were talking, we had taken no notice of these sounds.

How can we explain this? The answer is quite simple: when a person's attention is riveted by what his companion is saying, his consciousness does not register any secondary sounds in his vicinity. His interest and focus create a selective hearing that only registers what he wants to hear, screening out what is disturbing.

A classic example is that of a sleeping mother who can discern a faint bleat made by her child in the next room but will not be woken up by the roaring of a passing motorcycle.

At mass rallies, there are sound technicians who are responsible for the microphones and the quality of the amplification system. They listen very carefully to the voices being emitted by the microphones but are often unable to repeat even one sentence that was said or one thought that was presented.

In the audience, there may be an expert on phonetics who might be intrigued by the speaker's accent and where he comes from. He, too, will be unable to repeat the message conveyed by the speaker.

Yet a third person may be a language aficionado and be on the lookout for grammatical and syntactical errors. He will be able to enumerate the mistakes the speaker made, but not repeat the content of his speech. A newspaper reporter for religious affairs may be on the alert for newsworthy items in the speech, for a scoop, while being oblivious to the general gist of the talk and the commentaries the speaker gave on the weekly parsha.

Is there similar selectivity by the sense of sight? We are, of course, not talking about closing one's eyes which everyone can do, but with the phenomenon of the mind not absorbing something that is within one's field of vision, since his mind refuses to acknowledge it.

Well, it seems that this does exist and is common. Every laboratory technician can vouch for it. If a layman looks into a microscope lens, he will usually close one eye with his hand or squint. The technician doesn't need to do this since his mind will not `see' what the left eye is seeing, only what the eye looking into the microscope is viewing. Nothing else will be absorbed.

An outsider can master this feat without too much difficulty if he is intent on seeing what is on the slide that is showing the streptococci causing his sore throat. He has no interest whatsoever in continuing to see the table upon which the microscope is resting. His will neutralize the unwanted vision and even though his other eye is open, it is, for all intents and purposes, blind.

There are tzaddikim who can, with both eyes wide open, be blind to what is in front of them if they fear that it is something forbidden. But developing this power requires far more than a simple exercise. When asked by a young man how one could develop such a marvelous facility, Maran HaRav Eliyohu Lopian ztvk'l replied that one had to practice it from a young age.

A person's deep desire, his will, determines the wavelength upon which his ears tune in, and the official address of that will is a person's heart. The channel between the heart and the physical senses is not open and free. Effort and practice is required to build up control between the heart and the eyes and ears.

One must learn to concentrate, understand and employ one's memory, especially when one must overcome laziness or some other negative trait or inclination.

This can be learned from the angel who seeks to teach Yechezkel Hanovi the measurements of the future Beis Hamikdosh. He begins by stating: "Ben Odom! Look with your eyes, and listen with your ears." Put your heart to everything that I am about to show you so that your eyes and your ears will fulfill their function and will help you reach intense concentration and full absorption, to understand and remember fully. There is also a need, especially, to pay attention -- losim lev, to put one's heart to it.

This is a command for central headquarters, the heart. Employ your senses at their optimal level, and guarantee a perfect absorption and precise memory in your prophetic mission on behalf of the Jewish nation.

When Moshe Rabbenu finishes declaiming the Song of Ha'azinu to Bnei Yisroel, he says to them: "Take to heart all the things that I am testifying to you today... for your life depends on it." Rashi explains that a person must align his eyes, ears and heart so that they will absorb and understand. This is the implication of "Take to heart."

The intent of the heart and the alignment of the senses shall bring you to a full absorption that will guarantee that, "You shall command them to your sons to heed to do all of the words of this Torah." Before his death, Yaakov Ovinu also said to his children, "Gather round, sons of Yaakov, and listen to Yisroel your father."

A person's ear does not operate like a recording machine and his eye does not work like a camera. The heart, that is his will, stands behind the senses, as well as above them. It dominates the character of their activity and the selectivity of their operation.

This is well demonstrated when a person reads any article. His initial approach if a proofreader is different from that of a censor, and neither of them relate to it as an editor and certainly not as a person who wishes to become more informed by its content.

We must conclude that the will of a person grants him a special control and screening over the network of his physical senses: a more intense concentration and focus on the one hand, and a conservation of mental energy to absorb only whatever interests him, on the other. A mindset and a sharp focus of will can create a special sieve over the senses and activate them in a manner that will provide their master with very specific, specialized and efficient results which he has programmed in advance.

This is the `attention -- put your heart' which Moshe Rabbenu aroused on the part of Jewry, and this is what the angel requested from the Novi Yechezkel.

The knowledge that we are capable of activating such a screen over our senses can be most effective for us in many ways.

For example, take a person who wishes to review Tanach with one specific aim of seeing all the places where a king is said to have died, and wishes to differentiate whether he is mentioned specifically by name or whether his personal name is lacking -- such as "And the king of Egypt died . . . " or "And the days of Dovid to die approached." He can review the entire sefer Melochim very quickly since only one detail interests him.

Our holy works state that if a person `chanced' to witness a sinful act, it is not a coincidence. The very fact that he saw it comes to tell him that Heaven so ordained it to hint to him that he, too, possesses a root of that selfsame sin. If he were altogether innocent or clean of any vestige or taint of that fault, he would have been spared the sight.

This fact is bound up with the power of the heart to impose selectivity upon the senses. If the heart is truly pure of that given sin, the protective screen which it erects upon the sense does not allow the sight of the sin to penetrate, for the senses will become blind and deaf to it.

Such a pure person falls in the category of "Lo hibit ovven beYaakov . . . " He is impervious to the absorption of something so alien to him. And even when he is told about the matter and cannot help but hearing it, he immediately judges the perpetrator favorably and defends him to such a degree that he does not even hear or believe or accept that such a thing could have happened as it was told over.

Fortunate is the one who is acquainted with such a tzaddik.


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