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NOSTALGIA
Never a Dull Moment --
Life in Jerusalem Fifty Years Ago

by Yisca Shimony

Towards the end of World War II, financial conditions at the Shimony family were getting strained, and this meant cutting down on bare necessities. The meager income was now even lower, and everywhere prices scaled upwards. The main expense was food, and now this was shaved to the limit. On Shabbos, we tasted something that reminded us of fish and meat, but actually, the dishes were a mixture of bread with a small amount of either/or. For the cholent, Ima used chicken wings or gizzards, and added kishke, also made of reconstituted bread.

On weekdays, mornings or evenings, the menu consisted mostly of bread, again, varied with homemade spreads such as oil with homemade tomato paste spiced with salt and pepper, or a dip of olive oil, garlic, onions and lemon juice. From time to time, we feasted on homemade cheese, whenever family, from the moshav up on the Carmel, came to visit and brought us this delicacy. It was a tasty and very special treat, the handiwork of our Bobbe Feiga. For the main meal of the day, Ima served cooked vegetables, spiced squash or eggplant, to supplement our daily bread. [Eggplants, we were reassured, was a protein equivalent to fish or meat, since it contained iron.]

At times, especially for Yom Tov, Ima used to make her own noodles along with a soup, including the same gizzards and wings; it made a nice change for our culinary taste buds. As winter arrived, and the cold weather settled into Yerushaolayim, we craved for hot soups. Our weekday one was a watery potato pottage, thickened with flour and spices and garnished with some odd leafy greens. All expenses were carefully calculated. However, it was done with great care and love. To us, the Shimony family, everything tasted like gourmet dishes, and we looked forward to the main meal of the day, served at noontime.

Ima did her best, but she was concerned. Her daughters were growing and they needed better sustenance as well as better clothing. She tried her best to feed us nutritionally, but she felt her efforts lacking substance. And conditions grew still worse. Finally, one day, Bunya, the old Yemenite laundress, was dismissed. As little as she took, the family did not have enough to pay. Now Ima had to take over this backbreaking task of washing the family clothes, all by hand, including the lugging of heavy basins of water, an arduous ordeal.

In our front room, the "parlor", we had a tall and narrow breakfront with glass doors and shelves displaying delicate china dishes, painted in gold, black and maroon. They looked exquisite, showpieces for the rich. I often stood in front of it, looking at these dishes, and wondering where and when we had acquired them.

"Who gave us this lovely china?" I once asked my sister Chava. I could visualize them in museums, or used by kings and princes. "They were a gift from Tante Leah, who used to live in Botei Warsaw, but moved to the faraway land of gold, America." They were a noticeable contrast to the poor fare on our table.

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Ima kept trying to find ways to supplement the income. A relative of ours, Esther, ran a private kindergarten and was doing well, financially. Many young girls begged to be allowed to help, and she truly needed an extra pair of hands, as the enrollment was at its capacity. She approached Ima and asked if any of the girls would be willing to help.

Ima was overjoyed. "I am sure that Chava will do it willingly and capably." She raised her eyes to Heaven. "Boruch Hashem, her classes are in the afternoon."

"How is that?" asked Esther.

"There isn't enough room in the school building so they switched the times, and the older girls learn in the afternoon shift. She will be more than happy to help out in the morning."

Chava started working in the kindergarten. She gave all of her earnings to Ima and that year, we ate real fish for Shabbos and sometimes, even chicken and kugel. And Bunya, the washerwoman, was again employed to do the family wash.

At the end of the year, Abba and Ima decided to open up our own kindergarten for boys. By now, Chava was experienced and Esther was willing to direct her. This was not competitive, since her own kindergarten was for girls. Equipment and toys were gathered, a room was rented and small toddlers came to play and learn. So it was that at the age of fourteen, Chava became a fully fledged kindergarten teacher. Soon, the next sister in line, Tzivia, joined forces, since her turn came to attend classes in the afternoon. Later on, I, too, was employed in the family enterprise. This way, all of the Shimony girls became teachers at the age of fourteen.

Our big dreams did not last long. Many of the parents couldn't pay and the expenses continued to run high, until our parents decided to close down the kindergarten.

Ima still looked for an additional source of income to cover the expenses of food and clothing for her growing girls, soon to be kalla-candidates. Eventually, she took in some out-of-town girls who had come to study in Yerusholayim, as boarders. This venture was, Boruch Hashem, more successful. At one time we had four girls all by the name of Esther and our large "inside" room looked like a regular dormitory with beds from wall to wall.

For us, the Shimony girls, it was fun. We liked the togetherness and appreciated the added income and what it represented. Relatives -- ours and theirs -- came to visit us constantly, and, as in many a Yerushalmi home, there was never a dull moment.

 

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